Here, let me quote the emails I received, rather than repeat them. Kajtar is aka Soci of the IDE64 project.
---------- Forwarded message ----------
From: Kajtár Zsolt
Date: Nov 3, 2006 8:11 PM
Subject: Re: ETFE?
To: Leif Bloomquist
> Is the ETFE a real product? Is it possible to buy one?
It is real, I've got two

There was a production run of 20 units last
time sold out entirely in Hungary.
> How is it different from the RR-Net?
Now the one I've got cannot be buyd anymore. But that's better so, because the new version has a jumper for selecting ETFE/RR-Net compatible operation. (actually the only difference of ETFE to RR-Net was the way how the registers were layed out) Also it has a ShortBus adapter, and it can be used for EPCLink, which is a way faster than anything else so far

The contact address of Fuvesi is commodore(x)freemail.hu, but he has
problems with English, and needed help for translating his pages. I'll ask
him when he plans the next batch. In the near future he will produce
finally the long awaited (at least for me

) IDE splitter. (for
connecting 4 devices to IDE64)